Books on Grief & Loss - there's hope & healing
This is a list of books that either I have read personally or recommend them. You will have to look up these up on Amazon, Barns n Noble, or any where books are sold to purchase these. ( All book titles are underlined )
Here is a link to Mae's book Holding on to Hope.
The Sun Still Rises: Surviving and Thriving After Grief and Loss :by Shawn Doyle CSP Coping with the loss of a loved one is perhaps the most difficult and devastating challenge any of us face in our lifetime. The grief you feel hurts more than physical pain.
And yet, somehow, life is still going on around you. Is it even possible to survive, let alone thrive, after such grief and loss?
In this book, Shawn Doyle shares his heart-wrenching personal story of bereavement to supply you with the tools, tips, and techniques for dealing with loss and grief on an hourly, daily, and weekly basis.
On Shattered Wings: A Family's Journey from Grief to Hope Kindle Edition :by Nancy Sprowell Geise (Author), Jim Dultmeier (Author), Lori Dultmeier (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
“I went to bed trying to forget the words I said to Jennifer before she left for the evening. I would apologize later. But later never came. Instead, the phone rang. It was 2:20 a.m. Our lives would never be the same.”
—Jim Dultmeier, Jennifer’s Dad
A HEART CAN HEAL ENOUGH TO LIVE AGAIN BUT NOT ENOUGH TO FORGET
They faced the unimaginable—the loss of their beloved daughter, Jennifer, in an automobile accident. The driver was Jennifer’s best friend since childhood.
This is the unforgettable true story of a family’s struggle to survive overwhelming sorrow amidst unexpected and startling events. Along the way, they discover the value of faith, the insignificance of regrets, and the realization there can be joy again through harnessing pain into healing action for themselves and others.
Living for Lezlie: A Year of Grief Observed Kindle Edition:by Carrie Whitehead (Author) In November 2015, author Carrie Whitehead lost her youngest child, Lezlie, in a motor vehicle accident. She struggled with every emotion possible and at times felt she could not face the day, let alone anyone in general.
Following the advice of many to put her feelings into words, Whitehead began writing a blog in January 2019. In a series of daily posts, she shared how she dealt with the loss, detailing the process of her grief in real time. Now she has gathered those essays together with the goal of helping others struggling after the loss of a child. Through personal stories and reflections, Bible verses, and enduring expressions of faith, she hopes to convey to grieving parents that what they are feeling is normal and that everyone experiences grief differently.
This personal narrative, formed from a year’s worth of blog posts, presents a mother’s journey through grief after the loss of her youngest child.
From Mother to Mother: On the Loss of a Child : by Emily R Long (Author) Surviving the loss of a child is an unbearable pain. Yet it is a pain that so many grieving mothers bear every day. The aftermath of child loss can be filled with grief, anguish, guilt, rage, fear, loneliness, and a terrible sense of failure. Mama, you are not alone. You did not fail. This was not the motherhood you had planned, yet it remains beautiful and filled with steadfast love. In this book, dozens of mothers living without their precious children put their heart into words to share with other grieving mothers. Our hope is that in the darkest, loneliest hours of this life after loss, you will find some small comfort in the words of another mother who has been where you are now. When you feel alone, when you feel broken, when it feels too much to bear – reach for us and we will be there.
Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child ( Good Grief Series ): BY Gary Roe (Author)
Unthinkable. Unbelievable. Heartbreaking.
Whatever words we choose, they all fall far short of the reality.
The loss of a child is a terrible thing.
How do we survive this? Can we?
Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child was written to help.
Bestselling author, hospice chaplain, and grief specialist Gary Roe uses his three decades of experience interacting with grieving parents to give us this heartfelt, easy-to-read, and intensely practical book. In Shattered, Roe walks the reader through the powerful impact a child’s death can have - emotionally, mentally, physically, relationally, and spiritually.
- Intense, unpredictable emotions can hijack us at a moment’s notice.
- Our minds spin. We forget things. It feels like we’re going crazy.
- Our bodies get hit. Our health can be impacted.
- Our souls feel crushed, shaking our faith and what we think we believe.
- Our relationships change. A deep loneliness of the heart can set in.
- Our plans and dreams are shattered. We’re now in uncharted territory.
The Oil of Joy: by Rhonda Lazerte
Beauty Marks: Healing Your Wounded Heart ,by Linda Barrick
In this powerful healing journey, Linda Barrick applies the words Jesus spoke during His time of greatest pain to help readers transform their deepest wounds into their highest purpose.
Miracle for Jen: A Tragic Accident, a Mother's Desperate Prayer, and Heaven's Extraordinary Answer, by Linda Barrick
, Joni Eareckson Tada (Foreword)
One minute can change your whole life. The Barrick family’s life was irrevocably changed when a drunk driver careened into their van at eighty miles an hour. The entire family was hurt―but fifteen-year-old Jennifer’s injuries were so devastating that paramedics thought she had no chance to live. As Jen lay in a coma, her mother, Linda, pleaded with God to heal Jen from her severe brain trauma―to let her daughter be “normal.” When Jen finally awoke, however, it became clear that normal would have to be redefined. She seemed to have gained a new capacity―perhaps a miraculous one―for connecting with God.
Was this the miracle Linda had prayed for? If so, was it enough? Could she trust God with Jen’s future in the wake of the accident? Could she trust in His love for them all? Discover how God turned normal into extraordinary in this transformational story of hope and love. Now includes bonus chapter with updates on the Barrick family and amazing new stories about Miracle for Jen’s impact in the world!
I Will Carry You: The Sacred Dance of Grief and Joy Paperback – Mar 2 2011
by Angie Smith
In 2008, Angie Smith and her husband Todd (lead singer of the group Selah) learned through ultrasound that their fourth daughter had conditions making her "incompatible with life." Advised to terminate the pregnancy, the Smiths chose instead to carry this child and allow room for a miracle. That miracle came the day they met Audrey Caroline and got the chance to love her for the precious two-and-a-half hours she lived on earth. Upon receiving the original diagnosis, Angie started a blog (Bring the Rain) to keep family and friends informed of their journey. Soon, the site exploded in popularity, connecting with thousands who were either experiencing their own heartbreaking situations or simply curious about how God could carry someone through something so tragic. I Will Carry You tells the powerful story of a parent losing her child, interwoven with the biblical story of Lazarus to help those who mourn to still have hope-to find grace and peace in the sacred dance of grief and joy. Endorsement "This is a beautiful and tender book that would touch any woman's heart, no matter her age or realm of experience. It is about a relationship so intimate with God that it carves a safe place for crises of faith, for faith proved genuine and for divine callings willed, sealed and fulfilled. Yes, this is one mother's moving story. This one mother also happens to be a true writer. We will hear more from her. Angie, I am so proud of you. May Christ continue to tip the ink jar toward your gifted quill." - Beth Moore Best-selling author and speaker.
SEE YOU SOON!: A Story of Hope from the Life of Danielle Grace ,by Dr. Daniel R. Carfrey
See You Soon! A Story of Hope from the Life of Danielle Grace, is a brief, but powerful narrative speaking on the trauma of dealing with miscarriage. Honoring Danielle Grace, the narrative brings glory to God through illustrating how trust in God and prayers have helped. Author Daniel Carfrey pens personalized Bible verses and prayers of comfort and solitude to strengthen and illuminate the hearts and minds of forlorn parents.
Spoken with a raw emotional potency, Carfrey’s piece contains recollections from personal experience, and the narrative displaying the emotional cycles, as well as the physical adjustments made during the testimony of his daughter and son-in-law, parents of Daniel Grace. Expectant mothers and mothers who have lost children examine the hopeful attitudes and the spiritual strength that only God can provide.
From Grief to Growth: 5 Essential Elements of Action to Give Grief Purpose and Grow from Your Experience, by Paula Stephens M.A ( non-faith based )
The loss of a loved one can be the most life altering event we experience. But how do we ensure it alters our life for better and we don't get stuck in the dark emotions grief brings up? In 'From Grief to Growth' Paula Stephens, will lead you through the five game changing elements that will give you a road map to a joyful life after loss. Paula tells you how she went from hiding in the shadow of her son’s death to living in the sunshine of his life. With humor and wit, she shares the stories of the death of her father, her middle son’s drug rehab, and her own struggles to heal. Her practical tips and examples of how others have healed she will light the way for anyone wanting to find the sunshine after the loss of a loved one. This book will help you discover: • How to identify what’s keeping you from a happy life after loss • Why you can’t only rely on friends and family for support and who you need to add to your support system • What it means to give your grief a purpose and how that heals you • How to hold both grief and joy in the same moments - without guilt You still have one wild and precious life to live. If you are still hiding in the shadow of your loved one’s life this book will show you how to step into the sunshine and let the memory of your loved one shine bright!
From Grief To Glory: A book of comfort for grief parents, by James W. Bruce III
Intimate, emotional expressions of pain, peace, hope and faith gleaned from loss of a child.
Where is Robert?: by Christine Dernederlanden
A Children’s Bereavement activity book. Over 6000 copies aided the children of September 11, 2001 attack. This beautifully coloured and illustrated book, includes a 9 1/2" x 7" plain white memory box, a box of crayons and a memory journal. As the child works through "Where is Robert?" they will recognize their feelings of grief in the character. The character Chrissy creates a very special memory box and encourages the reader to do the same. Included is a letter from the Author Chrissy and the reader is welcome to write to her. Has proven it self an exceptional tool for groups, funeral homes, classrooms, police stations and hospitals.
Did You Know the author of Where is Robert? Is the recipient of a certificate of Appreciation from the Pentagon for aiding the families of September 11, 2001 with this very grief kit.
Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss ,by Pat Schwiebert
If you are going to buy only one book on grief, this is the one to get! It will validate your grief experience, and you can share it with your children. You can leave it on the coffee table so others will pick it up, read it, and then better appreciate your grieving time. Grand's Cooking Tips section at the back of the book is rich with wisdom and concrete recommendations. Better than a casserole!
Hardbound; 56 full-color pages. Affirms the bereaved. Educates the un-bereaved. A building-block for children..... WINNER! of the 2001 Theologos Book Award, presented by the Association of Theological Booksellers.
Surviving The Loss Of A Child: Support for Grieving Parents , by Elizabeth B. Brown
Nothing can steal peace and joy and undermined the very foundation of someone's life like losing a child. It is devastating on a level that most of us can't imagine. Written after the loss of the author's own child, Surviving the Loss of a Child offers encouragement and hope to those who may think they will never be able to live fully after such tragedy. Bereaved parents, as well as friends, counselors, pastors, and caregivers, will find this book a source of comfort and discover coping mechanisms as they move through their grief. Revised and updated, it has short chapters that are easy to take in, perfect for people going through this difficult time
Choosing to SEE: A Journey of Struggle and Hope, by Chapman. Mary Beth
Crushed for Fragrance: by Margaret Newnes
Death struck its cruel blow with no pity, no warning. Four years of a dream-come-true marriage extinguished in the stillness of the night. Percy, her love, her life, and her winsome Air Force pilot husband was gone. His Marge was left widowed... crushed... without a job; and with three children, the eldest just over three years old. Then came the crushing of a spinal injury; followed by one surgical disaster after another. But in the pain Margaret found laughter. In the darkness she saw a radiance. In the crushing she found a fragrance. What makes her smile? What gives her hope? What is it about her that encourages others more fortunate than herself? That's what this book is all about! Margaret Newnes is a retired Nursery School teacher. After teaching for 35 years, she retired, not knowing what God had in store for her. Certain circumstances led her to become her own Publisher and she had her book published in the Newness of Life Publications. The Lord has taken her far and wide to share her testimony and book. In spite of her many crushings, she spreads the fragrance of Christ wherever she goes.
Poppies in the Sand :by Ramona Swift-Thiessen
Have you been through a crisis that rocked your world? Did it harden your heart or make you a deeper, wiser, better person?
This book is about running to God in those times, finding yourself in a place where you feel like you are forced to seek him or die. It’s about meeting God in a dark valley, hearing his voice, receiving his life through the Word. It’s about finding him as your companion when you’re alone and discovering his blessing in the midst of something that could destroy.
‘The Lord draws near to the broken-hearted and saves those crushed in spirit’ (Psalm 34:18) is never more real and true than during times of disappointment, betrayal and abandonment.
It is the author’s wish to build up your faith when you face those kinds of battles, enabling you to find hope for a brighter future. Your path may seem terrible on every level, but please know it is not the end of the road, only the middle for those who have God as their source of strength. Press through to a destination that is greener, brighter and is filled with a joy you›ve never known!
Angel Catcher for Kids: A Journal to Help You Remember the Person You Love Who Died by Amy Eldon
Gratitude in Grief: Finding Daily Joy and a Life of Purpose Following the Death of My Son
by Kelly S. Buckley
Gratitude In Grief chronicles a mother's journey into the unimaginable—the death of her son. This is a personal journal of reflection in the days following the death, and the unexpected approach she took in dealing with her grief that changed her forever. To the surprise of many, this mother made a choice to look for "one little thing" to be thankful for each day while coping with her loss. She survived by cataloging every small blessing she saw—from feeling grateful for her relationship with God to being thankful that she had a few hours alone to fall apart and grieve. Each blessing was a message that hope is never lost and love never dies.Finding Joy in the Mourning: A mother's journey through grief to hope and healing by: Heather J. Ledeboer
When she learns that her baby is no longer living, life takes a sudden, abrupt turn at the end of Heather's third pregnancy. In the painful days to come, a story slowly begins to unfold revealing the refining side of grief. As Heather faithfully journals the complex web of emotion and truth, seeds of hope and healing are planted. Follow along as joy begins to take root and grow as her story transparently unfolds. Over 40 grieving mothers contributed to a bonus section at the end of the book by offering their candid, uncensored thoughts, feedback and insight to over 20 questions such as: -Is it helpful for you when others bring up your loss, or would you rather avoid discussing it?
Growing Forward When You Can't Go Back by Laurie Pawlik (Author)After life is shattered by loss or a traumatic experience--whether big or small--it can seem impossible to heal or even move on. Deep down you believe God intends good for you, but you just don't have the energy or strength to figure out how to move forward.
Author Laurie Pawlik has been there, and here she shares how she flourished despite multiple losses. Through practical tips and thought-provoking questions, she helps you take small yet powerful steps toward healing and letting go. She also offers insights and encouragement from the lives of strong women in the Bible.
After life is shattered by loss or a traumatic experience--whether big or small--it can seem impossible to heal or even move on. Deep down you believe God intends good for you, but you just don't have the energy or strength to figure out how to move forward.
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Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope by Clara Hinton (Author), Alexandra Howlett (Contributor) This book was born from a heart that has been broken by the loss of two of Clara Hinton's sons. It is her belief that hearts broken by the loss of a child will always have a void, and there will forever be a longing ache for the child that is no longer here. But, we can and must learn to live in our brokenness. Deep within our hearts are seeds of hope. When we nurture those seeds we will learn how to see life with eyes of love once again. It is Clara's sincere hope and prayer that as you read Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope your heart will be warmed and you will be able to see life from a new perspective that moves far beyond the heartbreak of child loss into the light of hope.
Life After The Death Of My Son – by Dennis L. Apple (Author)Life After the Death of My Son shares a glimpse of the unspeakable pain, helplessness, frustration, and eventual healing that Dennis and his wife, Buelah, have experienced since losing their son. Using excerpts from his journal—which he began the day after Denny died—Dennis explores the dark, lonely road of grieving for a child. He discloses his anger and disappointment with God; discusses his frustrations with friends and family; and shares how he's dealt with the grief attacks, which continue to sneak up and surprise him. His painful, yet promising story offers comfort and connection to those walking similar paths. With understanding and compassion, Dennis offers grieving parents insight from 10 lessons he's learned—and continues to learn. His gentle words and honest understanding will guide those with grieving hearts on their difficult journey; giving them hope; helping them to discover ways in which God is able to continue the life of the child they loved.
Beyond Tears: Living After Losing a Child by Ellen Mitchell (Author)Meant to comfort and give direction to bereaved parents, Beyond Tears is written by nine mothers who have each lost a child. This revised edition includes a new chapter written from the perspective of surviving siblings.
The death of a child is that unimaginable loss no parent ever expects to face. In Beyond Tears, nine mothers share their individual stories of how to survive in the darkest hour. They candidly share with other bereaved parents what to expect in the first year and long beyond:
*Harmonious relationships can become strained
*There is a new definition of what one considers "normal"
*The question "how many children do you have?" can be devastating
*Mothers and fathers mourn and cope differently
*Surviving siblings grieve and suffer as well
*There simply is no answer to the question "why?"
No Time for Tears: Coping with Grief in a Busy World by Judy Heath psychotherapist (LISW-CP) (Author), Bernie Siegel MD (Foreword)Facing the loss of a loved one in a death-avoidant culture can be excruciating. Grievers may be expected to put on a brave face, to “move on” quickly, and to seek medication if they are still grief-stricken after an “acceptable” amount of time. Psychotherapist Judy Heath draws on extensive experience as a grief specialist in private practice to help those struggling with the anguish of loss. Addressing the myths and misinformation about mourning that still abound today, Heath gently coaches readers to understand that coping with loss is a natural process that our society tends to avoid and hurry people through, often leading to unresolved, lasting grief. No Time for Tears offers practical advice for both short- and long-term recovery, including how to manage rarely discussed physical and emotional changes: feelings of “going crazy” and inability to focus; feeling out of sync with the world, exhausted and chilled, and crushingly lonely.
The Sun Still Rises by Shawn Doyle (Author)
I Will Carry You by Angie Smith (Author)
Grieving God's Way: The Path to Lasting Hope and Healing
by Margaret Brownley (Author), Diantha Ain (Contributor)The loss of a loved one is devastating, and the grief that follows is often crippling. While modern Western culture has adopted an aren't-you-over-it-yet? attitude toward death and the grief it brings, the grieving process can take years.
Weeks and months go by with no visible improvement. We might even wonder if God has forsaken us. Then one day it happens: We laugh. We feel connnected, restless, maybe even hopeful. We're no longer consumed by our loss, and our thoughts turn outward. These are the first signs of healing.
Though the tendency in our fast-paced society is to suppress our grief or ignore it all together, Grieving God's Way inspires a different course of action. In this 90-day devotional Margaret Brownley provides the framework for a methodical grieving process that follows God's plan.
Grieving God's way requires us to trust that He will lead us through the darkness, heal our pain, take away our weariness, and fill our hearts with hope, peace, and new purpose. From defining what grief is to validating its importance, Brownley gives us the components necessary to find God within our sorrow and grieve with Him.
Divided into four sections, Grieving God's Way offers insight into healing our grieving body, soul, heart, and spirit. Infused with scriptures and inspirational haiku by Diantha Ain, this book motivates us to shift our grieving from man's way to God's way. . . slow and often invisible but with truly amazing results.
So how long does it take to grieve? As long as it takes God to heal.
Living through Mourning: Finding Comfort and Hope When a Loved One Has Died by Harriet Sarnoff Schiff (Author)
Losing a loved one is one of the hardest parts of life. With sensitivity and wisdom, Harriet Sarnoff Schiff shares advice to help mourners find comfort admist grief and hope when a loved one has passed.
Supported by interviews with the bereaved and with funeral directors, therapists, and clergymen, this reference helps guide mourners through the grieving process.
RELENTLESS :by Heike Ingram (Author)Is it possible for God to turn your crushing loss into spiritual growth and fruitfulness? Is it conceivable that one day new life will emerge from the incredible sadness and heaviness you feel? In short, easy to read chapters, designed for those who are mourning the loss of a spouse, Heike shares her intimate story with vulnerability, raw emotion, and transparency before and after the death of her husband Ted. Her relentless pursuit to grieve well encourages readers to embrace courage, perseverance, and honesty in their individual journeys toward personal growth.
(The above books can be found on amazon as well as other places on the global network.)
Hold Them Near: by Catherine Beachy Yoder
A cold . . . a fight to breathe . . . weakness . . . death. Noah and Sara Beachy suffered tragedy and loss as one child after another succumbed to a mysterious genetic heart condition. Unsullied by bitterness, their trust in God deepened as blow after blow rained on them. A true story that inspires us to lean on God and treasure the moments we have with our loved ones. ( published and sold at www.clp.org )
My Ways are Higher: by Maryann Martin
Ronnie and Maryann Martin answered God’s call and moved to Honduras with their six children. Pouring their hearts into the work, they thoroughly enjoyed life at the mission. They loved the Hondurans, and the Hondurans loved them. Then tragedy struck when Ronnie was killed in a hit-and-run accident.
Left to pick up the pieces, Maryann struggled with questions. How could she raise a family without her husband? Should they stay in Honduras? Why did God choose to take Ronnie, an ordained minister who filled such a vital role at the mission? In this honest and moving true story, Maryann describes how God led her through grief, uncertainty, and doubt to acceptance and gratitude. Her testimony is one of learning to cling to God’s promise that “as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways ( published and sold at www.clp.org )
Reflections of God's Grace in Grief: by Faythelma Bechtel
God's Grace in the Valley: Meditations for grieving hearts, by Faythelna Bechtel
Sunshine From Death: by N.C.R. ( Nathan Renfroe)
Have you just lost a loved one ( a brother ), and are now in need of encouragement? I have just lost a loved one and want to encourage you with this book.
This is a list of books that either I have read personally or recommend them. You will have to look up these up on Amazon, Barns n Noble, or any where books are sold to purchase these. ( All book titles are underlined )
Here is a link to Mae's book Holding on to Hope.
The Sun Still Rises: Surviving and Thriving After Grief and Loss :by Shawn Doyle CSP Coping with the loss of a loved one is perhaps the most difficult and devastating challenge any of us face in our lifetime. The grief you feel hurts more than physical pain.
And yet, somehow, life is still going on around you. Is it even possible to survive, let alone thrive, after such grief and loss?
In this book, Shawn Doyle shares his heart-wrenching personal story of bereavement to supply you with the tools, tips, and techniques for dealing with loss and grief on an hourly, daily, and weekly basis.
On Shattered Wings: A Family's Journey from Grief to Hope Kindle Edition :by Nancy Sprowell Geise (Author), Jim Dultmeier (Author), Lori Dultmeier (Author) Format: Kindle Edition
“I went to bed trying to forget the words I said to Jennifer before she left for the evening. I would apologize later. But later never came. Instead, the phone rang. It was 2:20 a.m. Our lives would never be the same.”
—Jim Dultmeier, Jennifer’s Dad
A HEART CAN HEAL ENOUGH TO LIVE AGAIN BUT NOT ENOUGH TO FORGET
They faced the unimaginable—the loss of their beloved daughter, Jennifer, in an automobile accident. The driver was Jennifer’s best friend since childhood.
This is the unforgettable true story of a family’s struggle to survive overwhelming sorrow amidst unexpected and startling events. Along the way, they discover the value of faith, the insignificance of regrets, and the realization there can be joy again through harnessing pain into healing action for themselves and others.
Living for Lezlie: A Year of Grief Observed Kindle Edition:by Carrie Whitehead (Author) In November 2015, author Carrie Whitehead lost her youngest child, Lezlie, in a motor vehicle accident. She struggled with every emotion possible and at times felt she could not face the day, let alone anyone in general.
Following the advice of many to put her feelings into words, Whitehead began writing a blog in January 2019. In a series of daily posts, she shared how she dealt with the loss, detailing the process of her grief in real time. Now she has gathered those essays together with the goal of helping others struggling after the loss of a child. Through personal stories and reflections, Bible verses, and enduring expressions of faith, she hopes to convey to grieving parents that what they are feeling is normal and that everyone experiences grief differently.
This personal narrative, formed from a year’s worth of blog posts, presents a mother’s journey through grief after the loss of her youngest child.
From Mother to Mother: On the Loss of a Child : by Emily R Long (Author) Surviving the loss of a child is an unbearable pain. Yet it is a pain that so many grieving mothers bear every day. The aftermath of child loss can be filled with grief, anguish, guilt, rage, fear, loneliness, and a terrible sense of failure. Mama, you are not alone. You did not fail. This was not the motherhood you had planned, yet it remains beautiful and filled with steadfast love. In this book, dozens of mothers living without their precious children put their heart into words to share with other grieving mothers. Our hope is that in the darkest, loneliest hours of this life after loss, you will find some small comfort in the words of another mother who has been where you are now. When you feel alone, when you feel broken, when it feels too much to bear – reach for us and we will be there.
Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child ( Good Grief Series ): BY Gary Roe (Author)
Unthinkable. Unbelievable. Heartbreaking.
Whatever words we choose, they all fall far short of the reality.
The loss of a child is a terrible thing.
How do we survive this? Can we?
Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child was written to help.
Bestselling author, hospice chaplain, and grief specialist Gary Roe uses his three decades of experience interacting with grieving parents to give us this heartfelt, easy-to-read, and intensely practical book. In Shattered, Roe walks the reader through the powerful impact a child’s death can have - emotionally, mentally, physically, relationally, and spiritually.
- Intense, unpredictable emotions can hijack us at a moment’s notice.
- Our minds spin. We forget things. It feels like we’re going crazy.
- Our bodies get hit. Our health can be impacted.
- Our souls feel crushed, shaking our faith and what we think we believe.
- Our relationships change. A deep loneliness of the heart can set in.
- Our plans and dreams are shattered. We’re now in uncharted territory.
The Oil of Joy: by Rhonda Lazerte
Beauty Marks: Healing Your Wounded Heart ,by Linda Barrick
In this powerful healing journey, Linda Barrick applies the words Jesus spoke during His time of greatest pain to help readers transform their deepest wounds into their highest purpose.
Miracle for Jen: A Tragic Accident, a Mother's Desperate Prayer, and Heaven's Extraordinary Answer, by Linda Barrick
, Joni Eareckson Tada (Foreword)
One minute can change your whole life. The Barrick family’s life was irrevocably changed when a drunk driver careened into their van at eighty miles an hour. The entire family was hurt―but fifteen-year-old Jennifer’s injuries were so devastating that paramedics thought she had no chance to live. As Jen lay in a coma, her mother, Linda, pleaded with God to heal Jen from her severe brain trauma―to let her daughter be “normal.” When Jen finally awoke, however, it became clear that normal would have to be redefined. She seemed to have gained a new capacity―perhaps a miraculous one―for connecting with God.
Was this the miracle Linda had prayed for? If so, was it enough? Could she trust God with Jen’s future in the wake of the accident? Could she trust in His love for them all? Discover how God turned normal into extraordinary in this transformational story of hope and love. Now includes bonus chapter with updates on the Barrick family and amazing new stories about Miracle for Jen’s impact in the world!
I Will Carry You: The Sacred Dance of Grief and Joy Paperback – Mar 2 2011
by Angie Smith
In 2008, Angie Smith and her husband Todd (lead singer of the group Selah) learned through ultrasound that their fourth daughter had conditions making her "incompatible with life." Advised to terminate the pregnancy, the Smiths chose instead to carry this child and allow room for a miracle. That miracle came the day they met Audrey Caroline and got the chance to love her for the precious two-and-a-half hours she lived on earth. Upon receiving the original diagnosis, Angie started a blog (Bring the Rain) to keep family and friends informed of their journey. Soon, the site exploded in popularity, connecting with thousands who were either experiencing their own heartbreaking situations or simply curious about how God could carry someone through something so tragic. I Will Carry You tells the powerful story of a parent losing her child, interwoven with the biblical story of Lazarus to help those who mourn to still have hope-to find grace and peace in the sacred dance of grief and joy. Endorsement "This is a beautiful and tender book that would touch any woman's heart, no matter her age or realm of experience. It is about a relationship so intimate with God that it carves a safe place for crises of faith, for faith proved genuine and for divine callings willed, sealed and fulfilled. Yes, this is one mother's moving story. This one mother also happens to be a true writer. We will hear more from her. Angie, I am so proud of you. May Christ continue to tip the ink jar toward your gifted quill." - Beth Moore Best-selling author and speaker.
SEE YOU SOON!: A Story of Hope from the Life of Danielle Grace ,by Dr. Daniel R. Carfrey
See You Soon! A Story of Hope from the Life of Danielle Grace, is a brief, but powerful narrative speaking on the trauma of dealing with miscarriage. Honoring Danielle Grace, the narrative brings glory to God through illustrating how trust in God and prayers have helped. Author Daniel Carfrey pens personalized Bible verses and prayers of comfort and solitude to strengthen and illuminate the hearts and minds of forlorn parents.
Spoken with a raw emotional potency, Carfrey’s piece contains recollections from personal experience, and the narrative displaying the emotional cycles, as well as the physical adjustments made during the testimony of his daughter and son-in-law, parents of Daniel Grace. Expectant mothers and mothers who have lost children examine the hopeful attitudes and the spiritual strength that only God can provide.
From Grief to Growth: 5 Essential Elements of Action to Give Grief Purpose and Grow from Your Experience, by Paula Stephens M.A ( non-faith based )
The loss of a loved one can be the most life altering event we experience. But how do we ensure it alters our life for better and we don't get stuck in the dark emotions grief brings up? In 'From Grief to Growth' Paula Stephens, will lead you through the five game changing elements that will give you a road map to a joyful life after loss. Paula tells you how she went from hiding in the shadow of her son’s death to living in the sunshine of his life. With humor and wit, she shares the stories of the death of her father, her middle son’s drug rehab, and her own struggles to heal. Her practical tips and examples of how others have healed she will light the way for anyone wanting to find the sunshine after the loss of a loved one. This book will help you discover: • How to identify what’s keeping you from a happy life after loss • Why you can’t only rely on friends and family for support and who you need to add to your support system • What it means to give your grief a purpose and how that heals you • How to hold both grief and joy in the same moments - without guilt You still have one wild and precious life to live. If you are still hiding in the shadow of your loved one’s life this book will show you how to step into the sunshine and let the memory of your loved one shine bright!
From Grief To Glory: A book of comfort for grief parents, by James W. Bruce III
Intimate, emotional expressions of pain, peace, hope and faith gleaned from loss of a child.
Where is Robert?: by Christine Dernederlanden
A Children’s Bereavement activity book. Over 6000 copies aided the children of September 11, 2001 attack. This beautifully coloured and illustrated book, includes a 9 1/2" x 7" plain white memory box, a box of crayons and a memory journal. As the child works through "Where is Robert?" they will recognize their feelings of grief in the character. The character Chrissy creates a very special memory box and encourages the reader to do the same. Included is a letter from the Author Chrissy and the reader is welcome to write to her. Has proven it self an exceptional tool for groups, funeral homes, classrooms, police stations and hospitals.
Did You Know the author of Where is Robert? Is the recipient of a certificate of Appreciation from the Pentagon for aiding the families of September 11, 2001 with this very grief kit.
Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss ,by Pat Schwiebert
If you are going to buy only one book on grief, this is the one to get! It will validate your grief experience, and you can share it with your children. You can leave it on the coffee table so others will pick it up, read it, and then better appreciate your grieving time. Grand's Cooking Tips section at the back of the book is rich with wisdom and concrete recommendations. Better than a casserole!
Hardbound; 56 full-color pages. Affirms the bereaved. Educates the un-bereaved. A building-block for children..... WINNER! of the 2001 Theologos Book Award, presented by the Association of Theological Booksellers.
Surviving The Loss Of A Child: Support for Grieving Parents , by Elizabeth B. Brown
Nothing can steal peace and joy and undermined the very foundation of someone's life like losing a child. It is devastating on a level that most of us can't imagine. Written after the loss of the author's own child, Surviving the Loss of a Child offers encouragement and hope to those who may think they will never be able to live fully after such tragedy. Bereaved parents, as well as friends, counselors, pastors, and caregivers, will find this book a source of comfort and discover coping mechanisms as they move through their grief. Revised and updated, it has short chapters that are easy to take in, perfect for people going through this difficult time
Choosing to SEE: A Journey of Struggle and Hope, by Chapman. Mary Beth
Crushed for Fragrance: by Margaret Newnes
Death struck its cruel blow with no pity, no warning. Four years of a dream-come-true marriage extinguished in the stillness of the night. Percy, her love, her life, and her winsome Air Force pilot husband was gone. His Marge was left widowed... crushed... without a job; and with three children, the eldest just over three years old. Then came the crushing of a spinal injury; followed by one surgical disaster after another. But in the pain Margaret found laughter. In the darkness she saw a radiance. In the crushing she found a fragrance. What makes her smile? What gives her hope? What is it about her that encourages others more fortunate than herself? That's what this book is all about! Margaret Newnes is a retired Nursery School teacher. After teaching for 35 years, she retired, not knowing what God had in store for her. Certain circumstances led her to become her own Publisher and she had her book published in the Newness of Life Publications. The Lord has taken her far and wide to share her testimony and book. In spite of her many crushings, she spreads the fragrance of Christ wherever she goes.
Poppies in the Sand :by Ramona Swift-Thiessen
Have you been through a crisis that rocked your world? Did it harden your heart or make you a deeper, wiser, better person?
This book is about running to God in those times, finding yourself in a place where you feel like you are forced to seek him or die. It’s about meeting God in a dark valley, hearing his voice, receiving his life through the Word. It’s about finding him as your companion when you’re alone and discovering his blessing in the midst of something that could destroy.
‘The Lord draws near to the broken-hearted and saves those crushed in spirit’ (Psalm 34:18) is never more real and true than during times of disappointment, betrayal and abandonment.
It is the author’s wish to build up your faith when you face those kinds of battles, enabling you to find hope for a brighter future. Your path may seem terrible on every level, but please know it is not the end of the road, only the middle for those who have God as their source of strength. Press through to a destination that is greener, brighter and is filled with a joy you›ve never known!
Angel Catcher for Kids: A Journal to Help You Remember the Person You Love Who Died by Amy Eldon
Gratitude in Grief: Finding Daily Joy and a Life of Purpose Following the Death of My Son
by Kelly S. Buckley
Gratitude In Grief chronicles a mother's journey into the unimaginable—the death of her son. This is a personal journal of reflection in the days following the death, and the unexpected approach she took in dealing with her grief that changed her forever. To the surprise of many, this mother made a choice to look for "one little thing" to be thankful for each day while coping with her loss. She survived by cataloging every small blessing she saw—from feeling grateful for her relationship with God to being thankful that she had a few hours alone to fall apart and grieve. Each blessing was a message that hope is never lost and love never dies.Finding Joy in the Mourning: A mother's journey through grief to hope and healing by: Heather J. Ledeboer
When she learns that her baby is no longer living, life takes a sudden, abrupt turn at the end of Heather's third pregnancy. In the painful days to come, a story slowly begins to unfold revealing the refining side of grief. As Heather faithfully journals the complex web of emotion and truth, seeds of hope and healing are planted. Follow along as joy begins to take root and grow as her story transparently unfolds. Over 40 grieving mothers contributed to a bonus section at the end of the book by offering their candid, uncensored thoughts, feedback and insight to over 20 questions such as: -Is it helpful for you when others bring up your loss, or would you rather avoid discussing it?
Growing Forward When You Can't Go Back by Laurie Pawlik (Author)After life is shattered by loss or a traumatic experience--whether big or small--it can seem impossible to heal or even move on. Deep down you believe God intends good for you, but you just don't have the energy or strength to figure out how to move forward.
Author Laurie Pawlik has been there, and here she shares how she flourished despite multiple losses. Through practical tips and thought-provoking questions, she helps you take small yet powerful steps toward healing and letting go. She also offers insights and encouragement from the lives of strong women in the Bible.
After life is shattered by loss or a traumatic experience--whether big or small--it can seem impossible to heal or even move on. Deep down you believe God intends good for you, but you just don't have the energy or strength to figure out how to move forward.
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Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope by Clara Hinton (Author), Alexandra Howlett (Contributor) This book was born from a heart that has been broken by the loss of two of Clara Hinton's sons. It is her belief that hearts broken by the loss of a child will always have a void, and there will forever be a longing ache for the child that is no longer here. But, we can and must learn to live in our brokenness. Deep within our hearts are seeds of hope. When we nurture those seeds we will learn how to see life with eyes of love once again. It is Clara's sincere hope and prayer that as you read Child Loss: The Heartbreak and the Hope your heart will be warmed and you will be able to see life from a new perspective that moves far beyond the heartbreak of child loss into the light of hope.
Life After The Death Of My Son – by Dennis L. Apple (Author)Life After the Death of My Son shares a glimpse of the unspeakable pain, helplessness, frustration, and eventual healing that Dennis and his wife, Buelah, have experienced since losing their son. Using excerpts from his journal—which he began the day after Denny died—Dennis explores the dark, lonely road of grieving for a child. He discloses his anger and disappointment with God; discusses his frustrations with friends and family; and shares how he's dealt with the grief attacks, which continue to sneak up and surprise him. His painful, yet promising story offers comfort and connection to those walking similar paths. With understanding and compassion, Dennis offers grieving parents insight from 10 lessons he's learned—and continues to learn. His gentle words and honest understanding will guide those with grieving hearts on their difficult journey; giving them hope; helping them to discover ways in which God is able to continue the life of the child they loved.
Beyond Tears: Living After Losing a Child by Ellen Mitchell (Author)Meant to comfort and give direction to bereaved parents, Beyond Tears is written by nine mothers who have each lost a child. This revised edition includes a new chapter written from the perspective of surviving siblings.
The death of a child is that unimaginable loss no parent ever expects to face. In Beyond Tears, nine mothers share their individual stories of how to survive in the darkest hour. They candidly share with other bereaved parents what to expect in the first year and long beyond:
*Harmonious relationships can become strained
*There is a new definition of what one considers "normal"
*The question "how many children do you have?" can be devastating
*Mothers and fathers mourn and cope differently
*Surviving siblings grieve and suffer as well
*There simply is no answer to the question "why?"
No Time for Tears: Coping with Grief in a Busy World by Judy Heath psychotherapist (LISW-CP) (Author), Bernie Siegel MD (Foreword)Facing the loss of a loved one in a death-avoidant culture can be excruciating. Grievers may be expected to put on a brave face, to “move on” quickly, and to seek medication if they are still grief-stricken after an “acceptable” amount of time. Psychotherapist Judy Heath draws on extensive experience as a grief specialist in private practice to help those struggling with the anguish of loss. Addressing the myths and misinformation about mourning that still abound today, Heath gently coaches readers to understand that coping with loss is a natural process that our society tends to avoid and hurry people through, often leading to unresolved, lasting grief. No Time for Tears offers practical advice for both short- and long-term recovery, including how to manage rarely discussed physical and emotional changes: feelings of “going crazy” and inability to focus; feeling out of sync with the world, exhausted and chilled, and crushingly lonely.
The Sun Still Rises by Shawn Doyle (Author)
I Will Carry You by Angie Smith (Author)
Grieving God's Way: The Path to Lasting Hope and Healing
by Margaret Brownley (Author), Diantha Ain (Contributor)The loss of a loved one is devastating, and the grief that follows is often crippling. While modern Western culture has adopted an aren't-you-over-it-yet? attitude toward death and the grief it brings, the grieving process can take years.
Weeks and months go by with no visible improvement. We might even wonder if God has forsaken us. Then one day it happens: We laugh. We feel connnected, restless, maybe even hopeful. We're no longer consumed by our loss, and our thoughts turn outward. These are the first signs of healing.
Though the tendency in our fast-paced society is to suppress our grief or ignore it all together, Grieving God's Way inspires a different course of action. In this 90-day devotional Margaret Brownley provides the framework for a methodical grieving process that follows God's plan.
Grieving God's way requires us to trust that He will lead us through the darkness, heal our pain, take away our weariness, and fill our hearts with hope, peace, and new purpose. From defining what grief is to validating its importance, Brownley gives us the components necessary to find God within our sorrow and grieve with Him.
Divided into four sections, Grieving God's Way offers insight into healing our grieving body, soul, heart, and spirit. Infused with scriptures and inspirational haiku by Diantha Ain, this book motivates us to shift our grieving from man's way to God's way. . . slow and often invisible but with truly amazing results.
So how long does it take to grieve? As long as it takes God to heal.
Living through Mourning: Finding Comfort and Hope When a Loved One Has Died by Harriet Sarnoff Schiff (Author)
Losing a loved one is one of the hardest parts of life. With sensitivity and wisdom, Harriet Sarnoff Schiff shares advice to help mourners find comfort admist grief and hope when a loved one has passed.
Supported by interviews with the bereaved and with funeral directors, therapists, and clergymen, this reference helps guide mourners through the grieving process.
RELENTLESS :by Heike Ingram (Author)Is it possible for God to turn your crushing loss into spiritual growth and fruitfulness? Is it conceivable that one day new life will emerge from the incredible sadness and heaviness you feel? In short, easy to read chapters, designed for those who are mourning the loss of a spouse, Heike shares her intimate story with vulnerability, raw emotion, and transparency before and after the death of her husband Ted. Her relentless pursuit to grieve well encourages readers to embrace courage, perseverance, and honesty in their individual journeys toward personal growth.
(The above books can be found on amazon as well as other places on the global network.)
Hold Them Near: by Catherine Beachy Yoder
A cold . . . a fight to breathe . . . weakness . . . death. Noah and Sara Beachy suffered tragedy and loss as one child after another succumbed to a mysterious genetic heart condition. Unsullied by bitterness, their trust in God deepened as blow after blow rained on them. A true story that inspires us to lean on God and treasure the moments we have with our loved ones. ( published and sold at www.clp.org )
My Ways are Higher: by Maryann Martin
Ronnie and Maryann Martin answered God’s call and moved to Honduras with their six children. Pouring their hearts into the work, they thoroughly enjoyed life at the mission. They loved the Hondurans, and the Hondurans loved them. Then tragedy struck when Ronnie was killed in a hit-and-run accident.
Left to pick up the pieces, Maryann struggled with questions. How could she raise a family without her husband? Should they stay in Honduras? Why did God choose to take Ronnie, an ordained minister who filled such a vital role at the mission? In this honest and moving true story, Maryann describes how God led her through grief, uncertainty, and doubt to acceptance and gratitude. Her testimony is one of learning to cling to God’s promise that “as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways ( published and sold at www.clp.org )
Reflections of God's Grace in Grief: by Faythelma Bechtel
God's Grace in the Valley: Meditations for grieving hearts, by Faythelna Bechtel
Sunshine From Death: by N.C.R. ( Nathan Renfroe)
Have you just lost a loved one ( a brother ), and are now in need of encouragement? I have just lost a loved one and want to encourage you with this book.
